Proof of item:
ATTRACTION IS AN EXPRESSION OF YOUR AUTONOMY
- Become self-fulfilled and autonomous, with or without women
- Attain real core confidence that is not dependent on any situation
- Have fun and express yourself freely, by letting go. not by doing more tactics
- Connect with women in a healthy and effortless way, that feel right
- Become like a sun that women gravitate towards
The instructor who escaped the community tells you what the industry doesn’t want you to know. John Cooper is…
- Relationships Coach
- Author of Amazon Bestseller – Game Over
- Leader of Social Heartistry Movement
- Art Director & Former Pick-Up Artist
After a breakup John joined the Pick Up Community: “If I can’t be with the love of my life, I am gonna learn to get ANY girl ANY time ANY place.”
He improved rapidly as a “gamer” using the mindsets and techniques of the community, and was “getting” laid But there was a splinter in his mind. Something was flawed.
After some years of teaching at Pick Up companies for men and for women (The Natural Lifestyles, Get the Guy, etc.) he came to realize that scoring a “result” with women doesn’t make you good with women.
PICKUP MADE ME WORSE WITH WOMEN
Picking girls up with strategies was empty and dishonest and was ultimately making him worse with women than before he got into PUA. Furthermore, he got the insiders view of the industry and how PSYCHOPATHIC everything was.
Women were left traumatized as a result of being on the receiving end of these Pick Up acquisitions. They were not met with a loving embrace but were merely collateral damage to feed the egos of the PUAs.
There needed to be change…
He left the community, made a full recovery and reflected on how the PUA context was DEEPLY FLAWED. He realised that it was built upon the notion of acquiring women to desensitize the inner pain of the community members.
He became an internationally recognized authority and started to train the key influencers of the Seduction Community.
Has taught in more than 18 countries, wrote an Amazon best seller (Game Over) and before John leaves the dating world to take on new challenges, has collated all his wisdom into one body of work – The Social Heartistry Online Academy.
IT’S NO WONDER YOU FELT ANXIOUS DOING PICK UP
Imagine this… You are at a club with your “wings” to “pick up” girls, after much sharking around, you notice a beautiful “target”. Immediately a feeling of tension comes up: you know you should “approach” her.
You have anxiety but you need to man up and do it. Every step feels like someone’s put lead in your bootsand those small steps demand huge courage. Finally you “cold approach” her, but she doesn’t notice you. You wait for a moment, and realize there is no perfect moment.
You ‘open‘ with “hello” and ‘transition‘ the strategy into asking her for a dance by touching her hand and she ‘rejects‘ you and gives you that look.
You feel ashamed, but at the same time a sense of relief, because you did your mission and it is now over. You go home thinking: Obviously, I need to practice my “game” more. Shit, my friends are going to ask me if I had success and results that night.
Sound painfully familiar?
PICK UP IS A BLACK HOLE
“Pick Up” works like a drug. It is a quick fix for a problem deeply seated inside. You feel a sense of lack and pain, and you quickly go out and seek someone to get away from your pain.
You want someone to fill the hole within you, either consciously or subconsciously. The dating industry won’t tell you this, because the sugar rush of “getting laid” is more appealing and marketable than the hard reality of self-exploration and working through emotional pain.
Also most of these organisations and their coaches are so deep in pain themselves that they know no other way.
So what happens? You finally capture a women, feel good for a fleeting moment and you then quickly need your next hit.
This process has no end in the Pick Up paradigm.
THE SEDUCTION COMMUNITY QUICKLY SUCKS YOU IN. . .
We are starved of women, we need them, we need sex, we find a community promising us a sexual utopia – so long as we follow their how-to guide.
However, chasing girls with the acquisition mindset, will push you further and further down the rabbit hole of :